It is very contradicting, how someone always say to wait and be patient but at the same time still hoping there will still be someone out there who is willing to love you soon. There are really many factors to consider when it comes to a relationship i think. It is not just whether i like you or not. Love is something that is really special, it cannot be found like how you find food in the supermarket. It takes lots of time and effort for it to be cultivated.

Love can only be formed when the right particles react together. If wrong particles react together, probably an unwated PPT or by-product will be formed, but no love will be formed. It is not that easy i feel, for love to be formed.

Do you have time to love the person? Are you willing to take up the responsibility and be with him or her no matter what he is undergoing? Do you even have the heart to not let the person be hurt? Are you willing to change to become a better person so you guys can last? These are all very important factors.

If one feels that career or studies or whatsoever is more important than anything else and that more time is to be spent there, i feel that he or she should first remain as friends with the person, and not be so selfish and to love that person.

Can you imagine? two person are together, but they hardly even talk, or that person hardly reply a single message you sent? So they are just together for a STATUS. But is this Love? Or just a game of status?

I think everyone deserves to be loved. And that we must take time to know other party better first. Don't love and regret. It is unfair for both parties.