Adaptation from Celester's Blog... I think wad the following saying is very true. I seriusly think all should read this. =)
He mentioned the following ...
I just feel that love is a very mutual thing... (i'm not an expert or what...)
If both parties can't even feel the way each other feels then they should nnot even TRY it... it's stupid to TRY. You think what... sampling fishballs in NTUC? Or testing perfumes over SEIYU counters? Unless both are really communicating so well and can even think of what each other has in mind then give it a HARD SHOT!
Even if you really gave it a shot for one 1 week and it doesn't go on well, like it's fucking boring than you should just stop it and stop pushing it further because when things get worst in future, all these initial stages things will be brought out and quarrel over... and then both will start to blame on each other and compare who has been giving in to who more and shit like that...
Aiya just be friends la... but I still believe that after love there's still friendship if things ended early when things are still in good shape... don't mess it up and leave... by then, maybe 连朋友都不能做了...
Anyway don't even think of changing yourself in order to make her like you better... because at the end, the real you is the one that she should learn to love. If she can't even like the real you, then end it asap, it's better for both in long run... :)
After reading this entry. I suddenly felt so refreshed. Like why trouble over relationships? Is like, click click, dun click dun click lor. so just let nature take its course. For singlehoods out there like me, Come'on, dun hurry into love. Make frens and know the party better first. In the long run, it's better. =)
Let's work hard for love. and let's be ourselves.. :)